OffbeatHindustan Times
Just Like That: What matrimonial ads tell us about India

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Matrimonial ads in Indian newspapers often specify caste, sub-caste, and sub-gotra preferences, despite modern education and cosmopolitan lifestyles.
A common ad seeking a 'FAIRY LOOKS' bride highlights the widespread preference for 'fair' skin, reflecting color prejudice in India.
The term 'convented' in ads signifies a bride educated in a convent school, implying English proficiency and modernity.
Ads often function as 'abbreviated balance sheets,' detailing family background such as senior government service or industrialist status.
A minority of ads now include 'caste no bar,' indicating a small shift toward caste-neutral marriages.